Reckless Speech

“but no human being can tame the tongue. It is a restless evil, full of deadly poison. With it we bless our Lord and Father, and with it we curse people who are made in the likeness of God. From the same mouth come blessing and cursing.” ~ James 3:8-10a

            The first eleven verses of the third chapter of James’ letter lucidly describe the dangers of careless speech. He asserts that the tongue may be a small part of the body, but it can determine the direction of one’s life like the small rudder of a large ship. James says that, for this reason, only some people should become Christian teachers, since they are judged by a higher standard. If one stands in the Name of Christ before others his tongue must be bridled and controlled lest it does more harm than good.

            I have a recurring dream in which I am speaking in the Name of the Lord and in one of those frequent moments when I wander off of the script and opine about something, I speak words that so damage my witness that I am forced to leave the calling that I love so much. James’ admonishment is a reminder of the risk I take every time I write, preach, and teach for the Lord’s sake. That’s why I usually pray, “Lord erase from my hearer's minds the words that did not come from you and burn in those that do” after I preach and teach.

            Our society ruthlessly punishes public figures for slips of the tongue and now even silence on hot topics. It has never been harder for high profile individuals to express themselves honestly and openly. While James never says it directly in the aforementioned text, it is implicit that the words of our mouths can indicate the condition of our hearts. Perhaps he left that to our consideration because it is not always true. Sometimes, one’s words flow from a process of reasoning and consideration of the facts and feelings associated with a situation.

            The Apostle Paul says, “Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.” (Romans 12:2) and “walk by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the flesh. For the desires of the flesh are against the Spirit, and the desires of the Spirit are against the flesh, for these are opposed to each other, to keep you from doing the things you want to do. But if you are led by the Spirit, you are not under the law. Now the works of the flesh are evident: sexual immorality, impurity, sensuality, idolatry, sorcery, enmity, strife, jealousy, fits of anger, rivalries, dissensions, divisions,” (Galatians 5:16-24)

            I think Paul was keenly aware of the dangers of reckless speech. Remember, he was among the riotous mob that killed the disciple, Stephen (Acts 7). Later in life, he wisely advises believers to think before they speak and to submit to the Spirit rather than the flesh. Paul eventually found himself attacked by riotous mobs for speaking truth in love (Acts 23). It is dangerous enough to preach and teach in the Spirit, so why risk one’s opportunities to do so by babbling senselessly about matters of the flesh?  

            Finally, while this devotion may seem to be written to myself and others in public roles, it really pertains to every Christian believer. Who among you has no influence over anyone? When you speak to anyone who will listen, you are an influencer. You don’t have to be a YouTube sensation or popular blogger, or even a pastor. Your children, grandchildren, spouse, coworkers, friends, associates, and even those who overhear you in public places can be affected by your words. Therefore, guard your tongue for His Name’s sake.